Overview of Agenda for Small Group Meeting 9
- Welcome and Settle-In (3 min.) Welcome everyone as they arrive and let them know that you’ll be waiting a few minutes for people to join before starting.
- Opening Ritual. (3-4 min.) Lead an opening ritual or guided meditation.
- (3 min. or less per person, about 30 min.) Each person shares what they want to about their Inner Critic work and learning about STJ this week.
- Questions. Invite people to ask any questions about STJ enrollment or about Inner Critic work and IFS.
- Closing Announcements. (2 min.)
- Closing Ritual. (3 min.)
Detailed Guide for Small Group Meeting 9
You can use this guide verbatim if you need more structure or aren’t very confident in leading the meeting. The words in italics can be read aloud or paraphrased
Welcome and Settle In
Welcome to small group meeting. My name is —– and I will be your leader today. We will wait a few minutes to allow more people to join.
You can use the meditation described below or create an opening ritual of your own. Please first enter a meditative space yourself and then speak slowly from that place. Leave pauses between sentences.
Let’s begin with a short guided meditation. Take a moment to get into a comfortable meditative position. Close your eyes. Go inside. Focus your attention on the sensations in your belly. You might notice a softness, a fullness, or a solidness. Or you might just notice the rise and fall of your belly with each breath. Or you may feel something else….
If you notice your mind wandering, gently bring it back to your belly in the moment…
As you stay with your belly, you may feel more centered and grounded. You may notice yourself relaxing, going into a deeper place inside….
Allow another half minute or so.
Now gradually bring yourself back from the meditative place you have been in.
If it makes more sense to combine the sharing and questions, feel free to do that.
We will now take time for each person to share with the group. When it is your turn, share whatever you would like to about your work with the class material this week. You can share whatever work you may have done on your Inner Critics, IFS, and STJ. How is your real-time practice going?
This is a chance for you to share your experience with a whole group of caring, attentive listeners. However, it isn’t a requirement. If you don’t want to share, you can pass.
We want to have a limit of 3 minutes for each person.
If you don’t have a permanent timekeeper: Who would be willing to be the timekeeper for today?
Call on people one at a time until everyone has shared who wants to. If someone doesn’t hear the timer going off or ignores it and keeps going, ask them to stop.
Now is the time to ask any questions that came up this week? Do want to ask anything about IFS or STJ? Do you have any questions about the Conclusion Stage or the real-time practice? Who has a question?
When someone asks a question, see if anyone in the group can answer it. If not, then you answer it, if you can. If you can’t answer it, then send it to me (Jay) in an email firstname.lastname@example.org and I will reply to your group with an answer.
This is the final meeting of this small group, unless you would like to continue meeting. Do any of you want to continue meeting?
If enough of them want to continue, you can decide if you want to continue to lead or if they want to meet on their own. Let me know if they want to continue to use Zoom for the meetings and, if so, when they will be meeting.
Is there anything that anyone would like to say before we move to our closing ritual?
For our closing, let’s go around and have each person say how are feeling about the overall class and about the small group.
Call on people to save time.